Zamkati
Kodi mphaka wanu ndi wachikondi komanso wachikondi kwa inu koma samakonda kukhumudwitsa anthu ena? Kapena, kodi mumangokhala kutali ndi aliyense, kuphatikizapo inuyo ndi banja lanu laumunthu ndipo mukufuna kuti zikhale zosiyana?
Ngakhale amphaka ena ali ndi chikhalidwe chosazolowereka kuposa ena, ndipo ichi ndichinthu chomwe tiyenera kudziwa momwe tingavomerezere, mtunda uwu ukhoza kukulira ndikulimbikitsa kapena kuchita chimodzimodzi, kuchepetsedwa koyambirira kwa chitukuko komanso m'moyo wonse wamphaka.
Ngati mukufuna kuti paka yanu ikhale yotseguka, inu ndi banja lanu mutha kuthandiza. Pitilizani kuwerenga nkhaniyi ndi Katswiri wa Zanyama, komwe tikupatseni zina malangizo kuti mphaka wanu azicheza nawo.
kuyanjana koyambirira
Kuphunzitsa katsi wanu kuyambira ali mwana ndichinsinsi. Anthu ambiri amayesetsa kucheza ndi mphaka wawo wamkulu ndipo ndipamene azindikira izi. Tiyenera kugwiritsira ntchito mphaka wathu, popeza ndi mwana wagalu, kuti tizungulidwe ndikukhala ndi anthu ena komanso nyama. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuti muzolowera kucheza pafupipafupi.
Ngati mukufuna kuti mphaka wanu azikhala ochezeka, njira yabwino ndikumuphunzitsa kuyambira ali mwana, kumaganizira zachitukuko, kuyesetsa kupanga mphaka wochezeka komanso womasuka, kumupatsa chikondi komanso kulumikizana bwino.
Njirayi imayamba mwachilengedwe kuyambira tsiku loyamba la moyo, paka amayamba kulumikizana ndi amayi ake ndipo, pambuyo pake, ndi abale ake. Izi zimakuphunzitsani momwe mungalankhulire mchilankhulo chachikazi. Pambuyo pake, pafupifupi miyezi itatu, pomwe zidzatheka kuti amulekanitse ndi amayi ake, mphaka ayenera kupitiliza kucheza nawo, okhudzana ndi agalu, amphaka, ana ndi akulu.
Kugwiritsa ntchito kulimbitsa mtima kuti mukope ndikukhala ndi chiyembekezo ndikofunikira kwambiri. Phatikizani mamembala onse am'banja pazochitika ndi zochitika zomwe zakhazikitsidwa, musafune kuti azicheza ndi inu nokha komanso kuti azikacheza ndi ena.
maubwenzi abwino
pangani izo banja lonse kucheza ndi mphaka. Amulole kuti awawone ngati anzawo, otchinjiriza komanso opereka chakudya kuti mgwirizano ukhale wabwino komanso wosangalatsa kwa iye. Chitani zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku pomwe cholinga chachikulu ndikuti mphaka wanu ndi nyama yokonda komanso yosangalala.
Lingaliro lingakhale kupereka idyani kangapo patsiku pang'ono pokha. Osamupatsa chakudya chochuluka kamodzi patsiku, apo ayi mphaka wanu sangazindikire kuti ndi ndani yemwe, ndi chikondi chochuluka, amamudyetsa. Mukamachita izi munthawi zosiyanasiyana, ndiye kuti mukukulimbikitsa lingaliro loti ndinu amene mumalidyetsa. Mukamupatsa chakudya, mukatsegula chitini cha chakudya, lankhulani naye ndikumuuza za chakudya chanu. Kuyika chidwi pazinthu zazing'onozi ndikofunikira chifukwa adzamva momwe amakondedwa.
chikondi ndi chikondi chenicheni
Kukhudzana komwe mumakhala naye kuyesera kuti apange nthawi zonse ndi chikondi. Izi zimapangitsa ubale uliwonse kukhala wabwino. Sewerani naye, sangalalani ndi kukhalapo kwake ndipo muloleni iye asangalale ndi anu. Lankhulani naye, kukumbatirani ndikutsuka mphaka wanu kuti azolowere kulumikizana popanda kupsinjika. Lemekezani malo anu achitetezo ndikukoka mphaka wanu pafupi nanu ndi mawu okoma mtima.
Athandizeni kumva kuti ndi ofunika m'banja. Popanda kumukakamiza, banja lonse lizikhala pafupi naye, kucheza komanso kusewera, kwinaku akumupatsa chidwi koma kumulola kuti ayandikire yekha. Amulole kuyanjana ndi aliyense, akulu ndi ana.
Mukamatsatira malangizo onsewa ndi zambiri chipiriro ndi chipiriro, muwona m'mene pakanthawi kochepa, mphaka adzasiya kukhala kutali ndi anthu ocheza nawo komanso kenako kukondana. Ubwenzi sudzakhalanso kutali kuti ukhale pafupi kwambiri. Chilichonse chikupita patsogolo, izi zitha kukhala njira zomwe zimatenga masiku, milungu kapena miyezi.
Nthawi yosewera
Chilichonse chokhudzana ndi zochitika zamasewera chimapangitsa kuti mphaka azicheza kwambiri, azitha kulumikizana ndi anthu ena, kumawongolera nzeru zake komanso kumathandizira kukulitsa chidwi. Ndizofunikira kwa amphaka sewera chidutswa cha tsikulo, komanso zabwinoko, ngati muchita ndi abale anu kapena anzanu, ndi njira yokhayo yolimbikitsira mgwirizano.
Osayesa kukakamiza mphaka ndi masewera omwe atha kukhala owopsa pang'ono. Mwachitsanzo, amphaka, mosiyana ndi agalu, sakonda kuthamangitsidwa kwambiri. Wanu chiweto mungamve kukhala wopanikizika ndi kuchita mantha. Dziwani zoseweretsa zabwino kwambiri pamsika zomwe zimamuyenerera bwino.
