Zamkati
Ngakhale zimamveka zachilendo, tikukumana ndi funso lodziwika kwambiri. Eni ake ambiri amataya mtima ziweto zawo chifukwa amaganiza kuti amazinyalanyaza kapena samazitsatira dala. Koma muyenera kudziwa kuti sizili choncho ayi.
Nthawi zambiri vuto limakhala pamavuto oyankhulana kapena chifukwa choti maphunziro sanachitike moyenera.
Ngati fayilo ya galu wanu samvera inu ndipo ndikufuna kudziwa choti ndichite, m'nkhani ino ya PeritoAnimalongosola tifotokoza zonse zomwe muyenera kudziwa ndikuchita.
Chifukwa chiyani galu wanu samakumverani?
Tengani cholembera ndi pepala ndikuyankha mafunso otsatirawa:
- Ubale uli bwanji ndi galu wako? Kukhala ndi chiweto sikutanthauza kungochipatsa denga, chakudya ndikupita nacho kupaki. Galu ndi gawo la moyo wanu komanso banja lanu. Ngati mulibe cholinga chokhazikitsa mgwirizano wachikondi, ndichizolowezi kuti mwana wanu wagalu samakusamalirani. Udzangokhala munthu wina basi.
- Kodi mumalankhula chilankhulo chanji ndi galu wanu? Nthawi zambiri sitimazindikira, koma matupi athu ndi zomwe timalamula galu wathu ndizotsutsana. Galu wanu amafuna kuchita zomwe mukufunsa, vuto ndikuti samamvetsetsa zomwe mukunena.
- Wokonzeka musanaphunzitse mwana wako wagalu? Mwinamwake mukuyenda mofulumira mu maphunziro, kapena mwina mukupita pang'onopang'ono. Kapenanso mwina mukupindulitsa machitidwe oyipa, khulupirirani kuti ndizofala kuchitika.
Galu si munthu: amaganiza mosiyana, amachita mosiyana ndikumverera mosiyana. Musanasankhe kukhala ndi galu, muyenera kukhala omveka bwino pamaphunziro omwe muyenera komanso zomwe mungachite ngati zonse sizingayende bwino. Momwe mungatengere mwana wanu kupita kwa dokotala kapena katswiri wazamaganizidwe ngati ali ndi zovuta zamakhalidwe, inunso chitani chimodzimodzi ndi mwana wanu wagalu, munthu amene wanenedwa kuti athetse vuto lamakhalidwe ake ndi katswiri wazamakhalidwe.
Zinthu zomwe muyenera kudziwa zokhudzana ndi galu:
Makhalidwe anu ali bwanji? Kodi mumakhumudwa galu wanu akalakwitsa zinazake? Kodi mumamukalipira? Ndizomveka kuti nthawi ina mwana wanu wagalu angakukhumudwitseni, koma musakwiye. Kukwiya kapena kumukalipira kumangotengera galu wanu. Kuphatikiza apo, kafukufuku waposachedwa awonetsa kulamulira kotsika motsutsana ndi kulimbikitsidwa kwabwino.
Mukuganiza galu wanu ndi makina? Galu ndi nyama, nthawi zina timawoneka kuti tayiwala zimenezo. Mwina mukuyang'ana pazenera kwa mphindi 10, koma simukuzindikira kuti galu wanu akuyenera kununkhiza kena kake. Kumvera ndichinthu chimodzi ndipo nyama ilibe ufulu. Muloleni ayende momwe akuyenera komanso zosowa zake.
Kodi mumachita masewera olimbitsa thupi mokwanira? Kutha nthawi yochuluka muli nokha? Ngati chiweto chanu chakhumudwitsidwa kapena sichichita zolimbitsa thupi zomwe zikufunikira, si zachilendo kuwononga zinthu. Ngakhale mumamukalipira, sizingathetse chilichonse. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kuti musanatenge galu kuti mukhale ndi chidziwitso cha zosowa zanu ndikuzikwaniritsa.
Mwachidule: simungayembekezere mwana wanu wagalu kuti azichita bwino ngati sakwaniritsa zosowa zake kapena akumulanda ufulu. Galu yemwe amakumverani ndi amene amabwera kwa inu chifukwa adataya maola ambiri mukuphunzitsidwa, chifukwa adagwiritsa ntchito kulimbikitsana m'malo mokhala ndi chilango. Ubwenzi wabwino wopezera mphotho mwana wagalu umamupangitsa kuti akumvereni kwambiri komanso mwakufuna kwake.
Zoyenera kuchita ngati galu wanga samvera ine?
M'mbuyomu tidawona zingapo mwazomwe zimayambitsa izi. Tsopano tikupemphani kuti muunikenso zina mwa moyo wa mwana wagalu wanu:
- THE chipiriro ndizofunikira. Zotsatira sizimabwera mwadzidzidzi. M'malo mwake, kumbukirani kuti maziko aubwenzi wanu ndi galu wanu ayenera kukhala chikondi pakati pa inu ndi iye. Agalu ena ndi anzeru kuposa ena, motero ena amatenga nthawi kuti amvetse zomwe akuyembekezeredwa.
- Bwezeretsani mgwirizano: Ingoganizirani izi ngati mavuto apabanja, kucheza ndi chiweto chanu, kumusisita, kuyenda naye nthawi yayitali, kusewera naye. Sangalalani ndi nthawi ndi mwana wanu wagalu ndipo musayese kumukakamiza, msiyeni azichita mwachilengedwe.
Kwa chiweto chanu, ndiye likulu la chilengedwe chake, muwonetseni kuti mumamufuna komanso kuti akumva bwino pambali pake.
Dzina la galu wanu: kulakwitsa kwakukulu ndikuti galu walumikiza dzina lake ndi china chake choyipa. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa nthawi iliyonse akachita cholakwika, mumamuyimbira foni ndikumukalipira. Pali cholakwikacho. Amagwirizanitsa mawu oti "ayi" kapena kudzudzula kuti mwachita china chake cholakwika. Simuyenera kutchula dzina lake, ndikangoti "ayi" ndi kamvekedwe kanu, amvetsetsa.
Kuti mubwezeretse ubale wabwino ndi dzina lanu, chitani izi:
- Ulendo wabwino wautali.
- Mukafika kunyumba, chiweto chanu chimagona pabedi panu.
- Yandikirani, koma m'njira yoti musazione mwachindunji.
- Nenani dzina lanu.
- Ndikakuyang'ana, ndinakupanikiza.
- Yambani ndi kuchitira (koma osapitirira muyeso) ndikusunthirani ku caresses. Dzina lanu liyenera kukhala logwirizana ndi chinthu china chabwino.
Yankhani nthawi iliyonse yomwe mwayitana: monga ndi dzinali, ndizotheka kuti chiweto chanu chakhala chikugwirizana ndi izi.
Kuti abwere nthawi iliyonse yomwe mudzamuyimbire, muyenera kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Yambani kuyeseza kunyumba, pambuyo pake mutha kuyichita mumsewu. Kuyamba kusankha chimodzi chipinda chachete ndipo khalani chete ndikuchita izi:
- Lembani mawu oyenera kuti mugule. Mwachitsanzo, "amabwera" kapena "kuno".Osangogwiritsa ntchito dzina lanu kuti muchite izi. Dzinali ndilo lamulo lomvetsera.
- Pitani mukamupatse lamulolo.
- Akabwera, muzimukumbatira komanso muzimusamalira.
- N'kutheka kuti nthawi yoyamba mwana wanu wagalu samabwera kwa inu, ndi zachilendo. Sindikumvetsa zomwe mukufunsa. Poterepa, gwiritsani ntchito kalozera. Perekani lamuloli ndikumubweretsa pafupi. Kenako limbikitsani khalidwelo.
Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti magawo a maphunziro ndi achidule. Osaposa mphindi 15. Mwanjira imeneyi zidzakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri kwa galu komanso kwa inu.
Kubwereza masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi komwe kukupangitseni kuti muphunzire. Mukamaliza bwino panyumba, muyenera kuyesayesa mumsewu. Tsatirani malamulo awa.
- Chitani masewerawa mutangoyenda, osati kale.
- Nthawi zonse yambani ndi kalozera.
- Osamachita masewerawa pamalo omwewo. Mukamasiyana mosiyanasiyana m'malo mwake, m'pamenenso dongosolo limakhala lamphamvu.
Monga mukuwonera, kupangitsa mwana wanu wagalu kuti asanyalanyaze ndikumvera ndikosavuta. Zochita zonse zomwe timakusonyezani ndizokhudzana ndi kulimbitsa. Ngati muwonjezera chikondi ndi kuleza mtima pa izi, mupangitsa mwana wanu kuti aphunzire pafupifupi chilichonse.
